How to start a conversation without having to resort to having conversations about the weather, try the following steps when you don't have anything to say, or when meeting someone new.
Use the occasions as a topic starter. Talk about the occasion that bring you together. For example, if at a wedding, talk about how beautiful the ceremony is, or the bride is. Also you can talk about any news that is related to the society* let it be social. Remember never talk about sensitive topics, like politic, and religion. Sometime, when I realize that I am the only one who is talking, I stay silent for a while. If the other partner has been engaged in the conversation, I try to follow the cue that is found in our conversation, so I can really know what is interesting for him/her.
Remember to always have small and short talks. Also give a chance for the other person to reply. It is not nice for only one person to do all the talking, and the other one just listens. If you keep talking monologously, the other person will become bored and will loose interest in talking with you.
Use the occasions as a topic starter. Talk about the occasion that bring you together. For example, if at a wedding, talk about how beautiful the ceremony is, or the bride is. Also you can talk about any news that is related to the society* let it be social. Remember never talk about sensitive topics, like politic, and religion. Sometime, when I realize that I am the only one who is talking, I stay silent for a while. If the other partner has been engaged in the conversation, I try to follow the cue that is found in our conversation, so I can really know what is interesting for him/her.
Remember to always have small and short talks. Also give a chance for the other person to reply. It is not nice for only one person to do all the talking, and the other one just listens. If you keep talking monologously, the other person will become bored and will loose interest in talking with you.
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